Eternally True

By Tony Coppola

I find myself spending more and more time lately in awe of the world in which we now live and wondering if Christ could possibly be real to anyone anymore.

I don’t know about you, but I find myself more than often captured away by the turmoils, disruptions, and constant revelations of corruption in and around the world.

Truly, it doesn’t matter which side anyone lands on any social, political, or cultural issue, a healthy dose of angered opposition appears with heavy measures of demonized rhetoric.

The other side, whichever side, are evil dastardly liars with hateful motives.

All sides proclaim righteous superiority with moral obligations to obliterate the enemy no matter what. It’s like a never ending, no holds barred brawl to the death.

Even if we aren’t direct participants in these brawls, it makes me wonder how any one of us could possibly have a personal encounter with Jesus in the midst of all this chaos.

Especially when we get caught up in the ruckuses, siding with our biases, filling our minds with accusations, our hearts with disdain.

Do you ever find yourself doing that? Feeling like a good person in one moment, and then succumbing to the negative emotions of the latest event?

It makes me wonder if any of us has truly heard the gospel of Christ. The historical account of God sending His son from heaven to be persecuted and crucified on the cross, taking all of our sins, our wrong doings, our disgusting and evil thoughts, our natural tendencies to turn away from him in disbelief (even our hatred of him for some of us) upon himself and proclaiming once and for all that we are forgiven of these things.

And not only that, but how he took all of our wrong doings and disbelief and buried them in death, never to be remembered, and rose, alive again, from this death, making a way for us to join Him in this new, eternal life.

Have you? Have we? Have any of us heard this?

One thing is for certain, whomever hears it will never be the same. Whether we reject Christ or whether we receive Him, after encountering the gospel of Christ our life will never be the same.

In the many choices and opportunities we encounter in life, none are as impactful as the one we make after hearing what God has done for us through His son Jesus.

The Bible tells the account of a young, rich and influential person who spoke with Jesus, face to face, about what it would take for him, a self-proclaimed good person, one who has obeyed the commandments, to be accepted into heaven. It says that he walked away sad because he ultimately loved his possessions more than a life of following Jesus.

He asked if he could go to Heaven for being a good person and following the rules. But Jesus said that isn’t what it takes.

He says we must put aside whatever it is separating us from God, which was riches & possessions for the young ruler (as he was described) and choose, instead, to believe the gospel, leave the cares and possessions of world behind, and follow Him.

What about me? What about you? What’s keeping us from believing the gospel and following Christ?

Is it politics or activism we embrace? Are we consumed with the culture wars? Are we to the point where we hate the other side? Do we in our hearts wish they would die a tortured death?

Whichever wrong we are fighting against or side we are on chances are more than certain we think evil of and hatred against people on the other side. Even to the extent of some of us hating our own family.

These are the kinds of hard hearted thoughts & emotions that keep us apart from God.

Instead of hating our enemies, Jesus says to guard our heart by believing on and following the one who was sent to wash away our evil thoughts.

We are to sing praises to the Lord for the free gift of eternal salvation He offers to ALL of US.

It doesn’t matter our culture. It doesn’t matter how poor or how rich we are. It doesn’t matter our IQ. It doesn’t matter our upbringing. It doesn’t matter our sex, sexual orientation, or our gender.

It doesn’t matter our circumstances or our feelings. God doesn’t discriminate one from the other in all who hear the gospel and believe he died for our sins and rose from the dead so that we can have eternal life with Him in heaven.

Worldly equity can’t promise us this. Crushing our opponent won’t win us this prize.

God is the one who created and offers equal treatment, equal outcomes in eternity for those who believe.

Why would we settle for the troubles of the world when we could simply and humbly turn away from all the turmoil, and instead turn towards the God of Love?

And for those of us who angrily say that God isn’t real, or that he is an imaginary daddy in the sky who has never done anything for us, I ask what does a God we reject owe us?

We’ve done nothing for Him. We’ve not put aside our pride or even tried to take down the walls we’ve built to separate ourselves from Him.

The Spirit of Love is whispering the truth in our ear and we swat it away because our hard heart rejects it, like it’s the buzzing of an annoying mosquito.

Our conscience fights itself knowing the bloody thoughts we have of our enemies. We’ve believed the images demonizing others.

It doesn’t have to be that way. We don’t have to live with that pit in our stomach hating both our enemies and denying God. We no longer need to pretend to be a good person on the outside, knowing the truth about ourselves on the inside.

God owes us nothing. Yet He stands eternally ready for us to say, “God help me.”

It’s as easy and simple as that. “God help me.” And in that moment of surrender, God hears us. The hand He has always had stretched out towards us becomes revealed.

Reach out and say, “Forgive me God.” This is what it means to have faith in God. Ask for help. Ask for forgiveness. And then ask Jesus to come into your heart.

Say, “Jesus, I turn from the hatred in my heart and disgusting thoughts I have and ask that you instead would come into my heart and fill me with your love. Fill me with your Holy Spirit.”

Tell me now after hearing this gospel, believing the prayer you prayed is true, that your life won’t be changed. The words might slip ever so easily out of your mouth. But your heart. Your conscience. The whisper of truth and of Love in your ear, in your reborn heart tell you you’re wrong.

Say it. Say, “In Jesus’s name I pray these things.” Don’t be afraid. Don’t be ashamed. Ask again for God to help you. Never stop asking, never stop praying, never stop hearing the truth.

Go now, find a Bible and start by reading the book of John. Read it all the way through. And as you read ask God to help you understand.

Ask Him to make what He says in His word true for you in your life too. Never stop reading, asking for help, and praying in the name of Jesus.

And then set your mind to find a church, a fellowship of people who do the same.

Reject talk of your old ways. Instead, sing praises to the Lord and share your testimony. Tell the story of who you were without Christ and how you are a new person now following Jesus.

So often we hear cries for peace. But included is all of those hateful speeches in how one side is wrong and evil.

But you have a new peace the world doesn’t understand. A peace that doesn’t blame. A peace that freely shares the historical account of what God has done for us through Jesus. And how others too can have the peace and joy of true love.

The kind of Love that wipes away every tear. The kind of love that no longer needs to brawl. The kind of love that is real.

Eternally real.


The Cornerstone of Wisdom

By Tony Coppola

“Books are the treasured wealth of the world and the fit inheritance of generations and nations.” ~ Henry David Thoreau

One of the many best parts of my teaching day is when I get to read a good book out loud to my class.

I’m an elementary school teacher. I’ve been teaching children how to read for a little over two decades now. If I could do it all over, though, I’d focus even more time and effort on nurturing in children the love of books, stories, and reading. I’d center the culture of my class even more so in literature by way of the read aloud.

In fact, something tells me we could further transform education if we slowed our fast paced teaching days down and read more books to children.

The love of stories and reading, in my opinion, is the most impactful desire related to lifelong learning we can nurture in our selves first, and then in our students.

Upon reflecting on this topic, I’ve decided I think a most powerful tool in my teaching tool bag is the read aloud. I mean, the calmest, most peaceful part of my teaching day is when I’m reading a good book to my students.

As a quick side note, I’ve gotten pretty good at reading out loud. I think it helps me want to be a better writer too. I suggest we all slow down and read something out loud to someone we love every day, as well as spend a little time writing.

Over the years, I’ve noticed that students are engaged in a different way when listening to a good story than when reading a good story on their own. Especially when the readability and content of the book is above the listener’s independent reading level. It appears to free up their minds and imagination as they aren’t also working to understand, or even simply decode, more complex vocabulary. It appears they are able to attend to ideas that expand their metacognition, maybe.

While listening to stories, children are able to stop the reader and ask questions. They engage more deeply and wonder about characters, the meaning of words, understanding experiences they’ve never had, and so much more. They laugh out loud at times, and gasp and clutch each other at other times.

I’ve never second guessed my decision to read a book to my class rather than doing other activities. I don’t think anyone has ever thought or muttered the words, “I think I read too many books to my students.” My gut tells me most teachers think they would read more to their students if they had more time.

If all we did were read and talk about books, we’d be a whole lot better. Anyhow, that’s how I feel at times. Except I also know the impact writing and solving problems has on the heart, mind, and guts of a person.

It’s not about fitting read alouds into our daily schedules, it’s about scheduling the most impactful activities that best support the books we read to our students into our days. Even if the only benefit to a read aloud is to enjoy a story, it’s worth the time. Not much is more kind than reading a book to a child.

Frazzled? Stop and read a book to your students.

Do you want your students to be better readers? Then read to them.

Do you want your students to be better thinkers? Then read to them.

Do you want your students to be better writers? Then read to them.

Do you want your students to be better problem solvers? Then read to them.

Do you want your students to be better citizens? Then read to them.

I love reading aloud. I would argue that nothing is more important than reading aloud to children. It creates culture, bonding, and shared story experiences.

I’m not planning how I’m going to add more technology into my day. I’m planning which books I’m going to read aloud to my class.

Show up and with intention deliver what you know to be most crucial.

While we want children to learn how to read, the ultimate goal of reading aloud isn’t for this purpose. Rather, building relationships.

Reading to students is one of the most impactful ways to nurture relationships with students.

In all that we do as teachers, I believe one of our highest aspirations should be fostering a love for learning. And I think reading to them is the cornerstone to accomplishing this goal.

Stories are what connects all of us together. For younger children hearing stories. For older children too. And young adults. Heck, older adults learn by way of hearing stories, right? Even the scriptures say, “Faith comes by hearing.”

I guess my advice to anyone feeling uncomfortable with reading out loud is to see if you can find a HOME RUN read aloud. Do you know what I mean? Often beginning readers find a book they just love and read it over and over. It’s like finding a first love. It can be the same for reading books to children. Find that first love and read it out loud over and over again.

Reading is the most important area of learning we focus on as teachers. It’s a ludicrous idea to argue otherwise, in my opinion.

What do you think?

Drawing Lines in the Sand

By Tony Coppola

“…yet even the little dogs eat the crumbs which fall from their masters’ table.” ~ known, but not by us yet

I’m no quitter, I’ll tell you that.

I’ve been in three fist fights in my life and it’s never been with “a guy my own size.” Nope. All three were with guys bigger and stronger than me. And not only that, even though I was hurt worse than my opponent on two of the occasions, I was not the one to stop the fight on any of them.

I’ve tightly held the attitude that you need to hit a bully square in the mouth. And with as much might as you can muster.

Not only am I no quitter, I’m not afraid of a good fight. Nope again.

There’s something that tells me you and I aren’t too different in this regard. I’d like to proudly think this feisty, combative attitude is unique to us US Americans. But I also think our friends sharing this continent to the north and south of us might have a thing or two to say about that, let alone many others around our ever shrinking globe.

All of us seem to be mastering the art of drawing lines in the sand and righteously fighting for what we believe is right these days. For what we believe is moral, or ethical. And God help those who try and stop us, eh!?!

Have you ever thought about where the idea of drawing a line in the sand originally came from though? Have you heard about the story of the man who drew the first line in the sand?

If you haven’t heard the historical accounts of the event, it’s also where the saying, “ Let those who are without sin among you throw the first stone,” comes from.

When reading through the account (John 8), who in the story do you most identify with? Deep down, do you see yourself like the self-righteous leaders in the community snaringly staging the scene? Do you long to mirror the truly righteous man writing on the ground with his finger, reminding everyone we are just as sinful as anyone else? What about the guy not mentioned but most likely stoically ready to hold the coats like he did when they stoned Stephen to death? Or are you most like the adulterous woman being saved from condemnation?

If you said the man writing on the ground with his finger, drawing a line in the sand, let’s take a little closer look at who He is.

While He was the person to overturn the money tables in the synagogue, He was also the person who was born outside in a manger because nobody had a place for his pregnant mother in the city.

While He had thousands and thousands of followers longing to be fed, He also died alone; His closest friends denying they even knew Him.

He ate with the dregs. He had no home. They tore out His beard and drove a crown of thorns in His head.

They spit on Him and punched Him in the face. They even whipped Him with glass-lined leather straps, tearing the skin off His body.

They hung Him on a tree between two thieves, mocking Him to save himself.

What do you think? Do you still see yourself as the one with enough righteousness to draw lines in the sand?

As much as I want to identify with Him, the truth is I’m more like the other three types in the story. Probably closest to the adulterant woman than I’d openly like to admit.

I have no place drawing lines in the sand, do I?

It seems as though in my feistiness, my natural inclination to fight til the end for what I think is right has turned the original idea of drawing lines in the sand upside down.

He is the one who writes on the ground with his finger and draws lines in the sand for us while we surrender our stones, while we stop holding the coats of those throwing stones, while we walk away free from condemnation.

The heart and the will of that original line drawer is not like mine. Although, I think He wants it to be. I do. I want my heart to be like His. I want to be filled with that kind of love for even the lowest of adulterers … like myself.

I’ve never impacted anyone’s life for better by punching them in the mouth. Essentially throwing stones. I suppose instead of fighting, then, I should surrender.

Surrender my stones and follow His example. Put down the coats and ask for forgiveness. Accept the free gift that wipes away my sins. Do what’s most meaningful rather than what I think is right.

Surrender my will for His.



A Simple Reflection

By Tony Coppola

So, my oldest daughter turned 18 this week. Her mom invited a few of her best friends to join us and asked me to prepare a prayer for the occasion.

I’m not sure why, but these kinds of requests bring on uncontrollable physiological responses that make me want to avoid the whole thing. My stomach churns and fills with butterflies. I’ve learned, though, to shake it off as best I can and embrace the opportunity to seek the Lord in the matter.

I always feel like these situations open the door to a performance rather than a sincere, spirit filled encounter with God. I’m reminded of the admonition to not be like the hypocrites who puff themselves up to look better than others. To look more holy than others. To show everyone THEY are the good person in the crowd.

I don’t want to be that person. I want a real encounter with God. A burning bush encounter. A Jacob’s ladder encounter. A woman at the well encounter. Even a doubting encounter similar to that of Thomas, putting my hand in His wounds.

For those of you who have also been blessed with God speaking directly through your heart and into your soul, you know what I mean. The gift is a mystery. I am a wretched human, undeserving. And yet He loves me with no condition other than me saying “yes.”

If you are not a believer and still reading, there’s a very good chance you think I’m nuts. I know the feeling. I had those very same head-shaking thoughts. But also like you, I kept an accepting open-mind and painstakingly listened. “Good for you,” I said. “Weak minded,” I thought.

So anyhow, I headed outside for my daily chores and started taking notes on my phone as thoughts came to mind. What is it I want most for my daughter?

There’s a good possibility she will go away to college in the fall. She’s actually moving in with her grandmother to help take care of her very soon. Her grandmother has dementia and has been rapidly declining this last year. We want her to be able to stay in her own home for as long as possible. It’s where she has her best moments.

So many thoughts swirled in my mind throughout the day. But as I sat down later in silence to look over my notes and gather my thoughts I noticed a common theme: Love God the Father.

The movie of our life with my daughter reeled in my mind. Back, all the way back to the events in our life that brought the miracle of Sarah. Had our boys not gone to be with the Lord we wouldn’t have Sarah. Had we listened to the doctors and took their advice over what God had put on our hearts, we wouldn’t have Sarah. Had we not said that simple “yes” on that one day we would not have Sarah.

Love God the Father has been the greatest desire of our family. And even through the many trials we’ve faced since saying “yes,” it has been the only way we have found peace on Earth.

My prayer is that we all, even my non believing friends, would find it joyful to say “yes” and Love God the Father.

It’s the only way I know how to truly and authentically love people.

Choking Back Tears

By Tony Coppola

The day’s sun has gone down behind the mountains

A thunderous boom of compassion consumes my soul

Skies darken

Like fiery bolts of lightning, I see broken hearts flash before my eyes

The forgotten; the unseen; the abandoned

Like waves of mercy, my cries crash down in desperation

Choking back tears, I close my eyes and surrender to love filled whispers

Salty streams touch my lips

Stillness, silence, and fire

Darkness and waiting

And then a humble breath of hope enters like dawn’s breeze hovering over waters

A new day is coming

Undeserved grace shines its piercing rays of light onto my face

And by the smallest seeds of faith, mountains are moving

The taste of salt and choking back tears

360° of Love: Listening to the Whispers

I’ve done many things I’m not proud of. I’ve said things to people that I’m ashamed of. I’ve had thoughts where I should be convicted as a murderer.

What about you? Can you relate to that at all? If so, how does it feel?

For most of my life I’ve been self consumed. I’ve put myself first. Knowingly or not, I’ve worn blinders to keep my focus on the path before me. Like you, I’ve wanted the best for myself and for my family, and so I’ve dedicated myself to work towards those means.

When I think about the work I’ve done to get where I am today I have very few regrets. In fact, I’m pretty proud of the work I’ve done to get to where I am.

But when I stop for a moment, sit in silence, and meditate on what’s most important in life … all that somehow becomes almost meaningless. The heart of life in those moments has nothing to do with me. My success is nothing. Who I am doesn’t matter so much.

In those moments, Love is all that matters. Loving the one who first loved me and loving people is all that truly matters.

In those moments, it’s crystal clear that loving people is all that truly matters.

Also in those moments, I often ask, “Who am I to love others?” Seriously though, what difference can it make if I love other people? I know who I am. I know what I’ve done. I know the hurtful things I’ve said to people. I know the awful thoughts I have at times. Who am I?

I close my eyes and breathe. “Love other people” is the answer. Love people.

The more I meditate on this, the more I hear that message throughout my days. I see someone looking upset or worried and I hear, “Love people.” I see someone by themselves, or just plain unnoticed by others, and I hear, “Love people.”

It’s a constant whisper in my ear, “Love people.”

I’ve recently started sharing an idea I call 360° of Love, with a hashtag #Love360 to follow. It’s an idea based on the message I hear in those moments of silence, and now throughout my days. It’s a whisper in my ear: Love people.

If you’re here, reading this blog, I’d love to know your thoughts. I’d love to know if this resonates with you. I’d love to know if you hear these same kinds of whispers.

I hope so.

And to be clear, this isn’t about a movement or starting up a “brand” to get noticed. It’s about sharing a message that’s been speaking to me, and then asking if it’s speaking to you too.

I hope it’s speaking to you somehow. I hope it encourages you to take those moments each day to stop and close your eyes, breathe, and listen. I hope it encourages you to see if you also can hear the whispers of love … and also believe.

360° of Love: Listening the Whispers


The Girl in the Blue Dress

I remember the red brick on the side of the building behind her because it was all I saw when she was gone.

Most likely I was wearing double-knee Toughskins at the time since, as my mom used to say, I liked to walk on my knees. I wasn’t walking on my knees that day, nor in that moment.

In fact, it’s been almost 45 years since that day, but the memory is etched in my mind as if it happened just this morning.

My eyes turned towards the red brick wall when all of a sudden time slowed way down as I saw the blue dress. Her long black hair following.

I could tell she was running fast because of the way her hair and dress flowed behind her. And like I also had power to breath under water, my eyes captured the moment in still life slow motion.

I could see the curve of her chin. And the blue dress motioning. The black hair, so long. So pretty. I looked closer. I could stare forever it seemed. She was running. The blue dress and her hair dancing so perfectly.

Without warning, she was gone.

Red bricks.

No matter where I looked, I knew I would never see the girl in the blue dress again. The perfect girl. My heart ached. I promised myself I wouldn’t let her out of my sight if I saw her again. She made time stand still. Just for me.

My family moved shortly after that. I was at a new school, with a new second grade teacher, and new friends. There were no red brick walls at my new school. I sometimes still looked, but the girl in the blue dress wasn’t there either.

Steam ahead through junior high and high school. Lots of pretty girls. None of them ever quite like the girl in the blue dress. That’s okay. Time doesn’t need to stand still. My powers to breath under water silenced.

I met my wife when we were in high school though. It wasn’t long before I fell in love with her. She was so pretty with her pixie cut. So loving too, the way she gave to others so effortlessly.

I’ll bet the blue dress girl was just a dream, I would think. It didn’t matter anymore. But I still remembered.

Then one day time slowed down for a moment as I noticed a picture on the wall at Debbie’s house. It was so cute. She and her brother must have taken a school picture together. It was obviously an old colorless picture, but still so lovely.

Wait. Debbie has long hair in this picture. And a dress. And as I looked closer, a familiar curve in her chin.

“Debbie?” I ask.

“Are you wearing a blue dress in this picture?” I ask.

Time stands still for me, and I swear I can breath under water.

Lifelong Readers make Lifelong Learners

I want to share a couple routines I’ve been developing in hopes of fostering a culture of readers in my classroom again this year. More than merely teaching standards, I believe every child can develop into a lifelong reader; a lifelong learner.

There’s an idea in one, well maybe most if not all, of Richard Allington’s articles about teaching reading to our most struggling readers. He talks about ensuring that ALL students independently read books they choose, understand, and enjoy. He repeatedly talks about the impact reading with almost 100% accuracy has on learning. Nothing less than 98% does the trick.

When I stop and think about that for a minute I also think about my most struggling readers and how accurately they typically read books from my classroom library, if they choose to read at all. Then I think about the task of matching those students to texts they both enjoy and can understand (read with at least 98% accuracy). How do I take them from pretending to read books their peers are reading to actually reading and understanding books they want to read?

This, for me, is one of the greatest challenges of teaching reading, especially to struggling or non-readers. The last option I should choose as a teacher, according to Allington, is to skip this critical piece of a balanced reading program. Without it, my whole group AND small group skills lessons are a waste of time. Thus, I must make it the foundation of my program. Let me repeat, given the time to only choose one reading activity, I will choose independent reading of self-selected books over every other reading activity EVERY time.

Besides that, I wouldn’t be opposed to fostering a program where students write all day long. Hmm, I’m going to have to think about that. Anyway …

Additionally, Allington repeats that even our most struggling readers make the greatest gains when they read books they choose, understand, and enjoy for at least 15 minutes (an hour would be ideal) EVERY DAY. Again I say, how am I to ensure ALL students in my class are choosing enough books they can read with 98% accuracy so they can read for 60 minutes each day at school? Oh, and they should also be reading at home every day for 60 minutes. Hmm.

For the sake of keeping this post at a manageable length, I’m going to dance around this issue by making an assumption. I’m going to assume that if my students are genuinely enjoying books they’ve chosen to read and can tell me about them with significant detail, making those metacognitive connections I listen for, that they are reading with high enough accuracy to make accelerated growth as a reader.

I say this because the routines I’m about to share do not include traditional fluency testing procedures where I calculate accuracy and rate. I sparingly use them any longer anyhow. But what the routines do, at least for the children in my class this year, is eventually get all students reading books they both enjoy and understand.

The first routine starts with a simple question, which very well could have been the first question I asked my students this year. Smiling and happy, it goes like this, “Raise your hand if you’ve read a good book lately.”

Raise your hand if you’ve read a good book lately.

The first couple of times I asked I needed to extend my normal wait time. It obviously was a question my students weren’t used to hearing, yet. I get many eager hands every time I ask these days. Honestly, I still extend my normal wait time; the more raised hands the better! I ask the whole class at least a couple times a week. I ask individual students about the books they are reading EVERY DAY.

The second step of this routine is just as simple. Call on a student to tell the class about the book. This includes details like 1) the title, 2) a little bit about the book, 3) maybe a favorite part of the book or a connection they’ve made with the book, and 4) how they ended up choosing the book. For example, did a friend recommend it, or is it a book from a series they’ve been reading, etc.? I like to choose a total of three students to share.

The third step is to tell the students they all now have a minute or two to talk to each other about the books they enjoy. Even if all students don’t raise their hand in the beginning, most if not all students will talk about books they enjoy. Notice I didn’t say “books you’ve read.” I am building a reading culture and want to include EVERYONE. I had to be patient. When the timing was right it changed to something like, “Tell each other about a book you’ve been reading lately.” Many of my students have two to seven books in their desks at all times these days. Hopefully that comes across as a small celebration rather than a brag?

That’s it. That’s the first routine. Talking about and sharing books is what we do. Many times while conferencing with students I find out a small group of them are reading a series together. Many tell me it was a friend who recommended the book they are currently reading. All this, and much more, from one simple question. No elaborate planning. Just talking about books because that is what readers do.

The second routine I’d like to share is called Sometimes Readers Read Out Loud. The purpose of this activity is to improve or build confidence with reading self-selected books out loud. The fancy name for the skill is Oral Reading Prosody. It’s the most simple way I know how to tell if a student has figured out how to self-select books they can read and understand. This, in conjunction with conferencing.

As you probably already know, prosody is the ability to smoothly read out loud with proper pace, inflection, phrasing, and volume. The reader should sound as if they were the author themselves, paying attention to conventions and the flow of the story.

Prior to introducing this routine we watched several YouTube videos of famous actors reading books on Storyline Online. Along the way we talked about the way they read the stories with so much expression and enthusiasm. I guided them through the elements of prosody so that they were able to start properly labeling what they noticed.

One day, when I felt the timing was right, I simply said, “Sometimes Readers Out loud.” followed by, “Let’s see if we can read our books out loud like the actors.” I told them to pull a book they were enjoying out of their desk and start reading out loud. I told them we would try for five minutes and see how it goes. While students read, I circulate and listen. Each student reads just a bit louder when I get to them. They did great!

The second step is Buddy Reading. Each student gets a chance to listen to their Study Buddy read out loud for two minutes (the time was arbitrarily chosen 🤷‍♂️). I circulate again.

The third step is nomination time. I ask, “Raise your hand if you’d like to nominate your buddy to read to the class for a minute.” So many hands! I make sure to ask the nominated student if they are willing to read to us. So far, all nominees have agreed.

Once the student finishes, we give a polite round of applause and talk about what we noticed. We talk about pace, smoothness, phrasing, expression and volume.

Readers don’t always read out loud, but sometimes they do.

Well, what do you think? Do you think these routines help foster lifelong readers? I feel like they’ve helped get us started on this journey. I also feel like I’ve gone long with this post. If you are still reading, you are a brave soul and deserve a prize of some sort!

One final thought. It’s important to give the benefit of the doubt whenever possible. I know, random.

Thank you for reading! Cheers! Leave a comment if you like.


I Married My Hero

It’s true. I married my hero.

She wasn’t always my hero. She hasn’t always been my best friend either. But she’s my hero now. And my best friend too.

If you knew Debbie like I do, she’d probably be your hero. She’d probably be the best kind of friend you knew too.

What is it about her that makes her my hero? Many things. Her drive is amazing. Watching her work has helped me develop quite the work ethic too.

She routinely devours the meatiest of books and then proceeds to share the most detailed regurgitation of them, as if she was the author HERSELF. She is superhuman if you ask me! Watching her read has helped me become quite the reader too.

She’s been our daughters’ teacher at home since before they started kindergarten. Our girls are both in high school now and they are amazing people because of her. They aren’t perfect, that’s not the point. Neither is she.

The point is that despite all of these wonderful things she has shown me, the superhuman qualities she possesses that inspire me, there’s one trait that stands out and humbles me most.

As much as my work habits have improved over the years, I still am no match for her.

As much as I’ve increased my reading volume over the years, I still have a lot of catching up to do.

As much as I’ve honed my teaching craft over the years, I’m still nowhere near the master teacher she is (oh, I neglected to mention she’s also been a first grade teacher these last 20 years, as well). She’s marvelous in so many ways.

I still remember the day I fell in love with her. She had on a red shirt, gold earrings, and had the cutest of pixie cuts. Even more than her beauty, there was something else about her that drew me in. It’s the same thing about her that draws me in again today.

Now that I think about it, I’ll bet it’s what fuels her drive. Yes. It’s got to be it! It’s what makes her superhuman, I think.

Compassion for people.

My wife, Debbie, has compassion for people. It’s why she can’t sleep many nights. It disguises itself as worry, but it’s not. It sometimes looks like frustration and impatience, but I know the truth. It’s compassion for people. She goes through her days being led by her love for people.

This humbles me greatly and is the superhuman quality I long to have most.

It’s like I’m back in the moment over 30 years ago when I first realized this about her. I wish I had that same kind of compassion for people.

Don’t get me wrong, I try. I sometimes feel like I’m even getting pretty good at serving others, but it’s not the same.

For me, the greatest trait of any hero is the unending willingness to put others first. And I think this trait is instigated by having compassion for people. The kind of compassion that leads to action. The kind of compassion that leads to serving others.

My hope is that we all long to love others.

May we all be blessed with the desire, the compassion that leads to loving people.

Achieving More by Assigning Less Homework: the story continues

There can be a lot of pressure out there to maximize every minute of every day in the classroom. And rightly so. What does that mean, though? I ask because one of the best parts of my day is first thing in the morning when many students are vying for my attention.

Mornings in the classroom reminds me of coming home from work when my girls were young. They came running to me, with open arms and smiles, yelling “Daddy” as soon as I came in the front door. It was the best part of my day! I wonder if they felt the same way?

Some students can’t wait to tell me about a book they read at home. Some can’t wait to show me the picture they drew or story they wrote last night. Some are eager to trade one self-paced math packet for the next. And some just want to tell me about a part of their life they find exciting.

It’s a little loud. It’s a little hectic. It may even look as if we aren’t maximizing our time to unbelieving eyes. My guess, however, is it’s the best part of the day for many kids, especially the kids so excitedly waiting to talk to me. And I’m not their parent. I’m their teacher.

Back to homework. Back to my story.

What if more of my students were just as motivated to learn as the zealous mathematicians I told you about in my last post? What if, tragically, more of my students were as bored as they were, but never said anything? These questions lead me to wonder the following.

I wondered what would happen if I offered the same opportunity for acceleration to all of my students? What if I stopped directing the learning of my students when they go home, but instead encouraged them to follow their learning passions?

I also started to wonder, what if I was wrongly interpreting my disdain for homework this whole time? It’s not right to be lazy. I’d been told I was lazy most of my childhood. I was. Unless, of course, I was doing something I enjoyed. Something about which I had passion. Something I WANTED to learn. Hmm.

That day I stopped assigning homework. Instead, I started promoting opportunities. You would have thought math packets were free cheese pizzas the first day I told the kids they could go ahead of my lessons. I told them that if they finished one grade level I would let them go onto the next. I told them they could go as far as they wanted. So many cheers! They were so motivated!

The motivation quickly died for many. But not for my zealous mathematicians. Another third grader joined, as well as two second graders. Those five kids completed at least two years of math work that year. Many others surpassed what they would have normally done too. It was an amazing year in math for those five students, and many more.

I wonder what you think. Did I do the right thing letting those five kids freely do as much math as they wanted? Would it have been more ethical to keep them with the rest of the class, one lesson at a time?

As I look back on that year I realize the many mistakes I made. But more so, I think I made more progress than ever before in my 20 years of teaching. That year was a new beginning for me. I loved teaching again. And I loved students more than ever before too!

One final thought:

Assigning homework is boring. Collecting and grading homework is boring. Passing back homework is boring. But watching my students follow their passions isn’t boring. I’m NEVER bored when a student tells me about a book s/he is reading. I’m NEVER bored when a student enthusiastically reads her/his writing to me. And I’m NEVER bored when students are fired up to learn as much math as they can.

Are you bored? Are your students bored? It doesn’t have to be that way. If you haven’t yet tried assigning less homework … there’s a possibility just that one change could be the beginning of making the difference you’ve been longing to make!